12 Signs your Boyfriend is a Loser
by Gloria Liven
Article from StudiesofLove.com

Know these signs, so that you can avoid getting trapped in a relationship with a loser boyfriend. The sooner you can get free of a loser, the happier and healthier you will be.

1. He Falls Fast
   Guys who fall in love fast often fall out of love fast, too, and have shallow feelings. A normal person will take their time to really get to know you before pledging their love, proposing, etc.
2. Your Friends/Family Dislike Him
   When you're in a relationship it can be hard to have an objective view point. Consider what those around you say.
3. You've Heard Stories
   Does he have a bad reputation? Or does he tell stories in which he's violent, mean, abusive, womanizing, or insensitive to others?
4. Isolates You
   He doesn't want you to have interests outside of the relationship, and resents you spending time with friends or family.
5. Paranoid or Controlling
   He may want to control what you eat, wear, who you talk to, where you go. He may check your messages/emails or want to know everyone you've talked to.
6. He wants sex quickly
   In a new relationship this is common for a loser to do; Does he pressure you to move faster than you want? Try this: Tell him no, you aren't ready. A good guy will say, "I'll wait until you're ready".
7. Abusive To Others
   Does he treat waitresses or women besides you badly? Have road rage, get in fights with friends? If you want to know how you will be treated later in the relationship, watch how they treat others, especially other women.
8. Lacks Effort
   Does he seem to put less work into the relationship than you do? Are this gifts thoughtless/cheap/unwrapped? Does he never offer to do things for you or take you out? Some loser simply don't value and put work into a relationship.
9. Physically Violent
   If your boyfriend has ever broken something of yours out of anger, kicked walls/objects/pets, shoved or hit you, it's time to leave. Violence only gets worse with time.
10. Alcohol/Drugs/Porn are his hobbies
    If these are his ideas of fun, that's unhealthy and will lead to problems later. A guy should have interests and hobbies in real life, and not resort to these for entertainment.
11. He's a Mooch
    He mooches of his friends, family, or you. Maybe he lives off his parents, or asks to borrow money from you, or is on welfare. Either way, he doesn't want to work to support himself.
12. Doesn't take responsibility
    He may blame his friends, his boss, society, you... anyone but himself when things go wrong.
    

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